"Frannies
Miracle"
by Gayle Van
It was November 22nd year 2000. I was inside the
house and could see my husband out on the patio trying to erect a wind
barrier so that the new monkey we had recently acquired would have a
windbreak from the cold winds that had been forecast for our area.
Now , our area is far from being temperate...it is more tropical or
subtropical, but an unusual air stream was forcing a cold spell
upon us. I was inside the house watching the weather channel and getting
my black cap capuchin settled inside. I had not yet locked the door to
her cage when I heard a clatter of tools out in the patio. Annoyed by
the sound I approached the door and impatiently hollered
..."now what have you done". No answer came so I proceeded to
open the door and stick my head out so that I could see what was going
on. "Oh my God honey, are you alright?". "Yes",
my husband replied. "Are you in pain?". "No",
was the answer as he was struggling to get up. "NO, don't
move", I yelled. Blood was now oozing from my husbands head
and I knew I had to get to a phone yet I could not leave him unattended
lest he fall again and the pool was just to close for comfort.
Al!!!!!!!! Al!!!!!!!!! I screamed. Al was our handyman and
was working around the front of the house. How he ever heard me was
beyond me. Guardedly he approached, not really wanting to see but forcing
himself to come to my aid because he could see that I was frantic. After
instructing Al to stay by my husband and not to let him up...I ran for a
phone and dialed 911. What should have seemed like hours, seemed like
seconds as I hung up the phone and heard the sirens off in the distance.
The hours seemed to fly by in the emergency department and John seemed
to be deteriorating by the minute. Now he was unconscious and thrashing
about. He had two skull fractures, his brain was swelling and we
expected him to start seizure anytime. He kept screaming...."The
pain....the pain" Then that awful scream sprang from his
contorted mouth signaling a seizure was forthcoming. This was followed
by a grand mal unlike any I had ever seen in my 42 years as a registered
nurse. Then he went into respiratory arrest and was put on a respirator
which he promptly pulled out. Again and again my husband was intubated,
until I said "NO MORE! Can't you see that he doesn't want it
in?". That was the beginning of John's struggle between life
& death.
Weeks flew by, John showed no improvement. Depression, the Doctors told
me, would set in and it would be best to put my husband in a nursing
home. I used every scheme I could think of to keep my husband in the
acute care hospital because I would not agree to a nursing home. Finally
the day arrived when I was forced to either take John home or submit
nursing home papers....so I brought my husband home. Every one thought I
was crazy and said that it would kill me. Yes, it was hard. Day after
day he would lay in bed, not eat or drink (he had lost 40 pounds). He
would threaten to hurt me and told me to stay away. I had lost all hope
until one morning I came in after feeding Cookie & CoCo out in the
back cage to find Frannie, our newly acquired black cap capuchin loose
in the patio. "Oh my God, now what?" I thought. Frannie hated
me. She needed no provocation to attack. She had bonded with John
from day one and now she was looking for him. A mad dash across the
patio brought me safely into the house. But what about Frannie??? I couldn't
leave her there, I couldn't call any one in to help because I was afraid
that if she bit someone, John would lose her for sure. Only one thing to
do, with purpose in my stride and authority in my voice, I went to
John's bedroom door and sternly said "Honey you have to help me,
Frannie is loose on the patio.". "Oh my God", he
yelled and with that the blankets flew back, the feet swept out onto the
floor, pants went on, socks went on and he grabbed his walker and headed
down the hall towards the patio. He was weak, but his strength would not
fail him, he loved Frannie too much.
Almost falling down the one step leading to the patio, John placed his
walker aside and called to Frannie. She came bounding towards him
scrambling up his legs . He was crying, she was crying (it had been a
month that she had seen her Daddy) A chair was quickly placed
within John's reach as he held Frannie. Exhausted and drained
physically, John sat down and fell asleep holding Frannie in his arms.
She stayed with him until he woke up and he was able to put her safely
in her cage.
Frannie was John's angel. She brought him back to the life he loved so
much. It was many weeks and indeed months, before John fully
recovered. And as for me, I don't think I'll ever recover...a miracle
happened here and it changed my life forever.
Remember earlier in my story where I said I had not yet locked my little
Candilou's cage? Well, when I got home in the early hours of the
morning, almost 14 hours later, I found my little girl asleep on my
pillow in our bedroom. She had touched nothing but she did take her
diaper off and left me a little present. LOL |